I don't know any person who will appreciate being labelled a fool, even in their most horrible or senseless mistakes and decisions. Often we wish people would understand and not be too hard on us when our actions and behavior are questionable. We could find ourselves in a very destructive and injurious behavior to others but not regard that as foolishness. Consider it this way, as much as we hate to admit, a person with anger tantrum lends himself or herself to foolishness. My involvement in the ministry and the lives of people since the seventies had brought me face to face with terrible anger.
This article seeks to address the foolishness of anger, especially among christians, the causes of anger, the effects of anger and the solutions to this debilitating emotion. There are about 234 (two hundred and thirty-four) mention of anger in the Holy Bible. Anger is one of the strongest of all passions, therefore requires a heavy dose of God's grace to tame its destructiveness. It's a human wrath express through force and indiscretion. Anger victims are always left with wounds, scars,, hurts, pains and regrets. This is the most agitated condition of feeling, an outburst of wrath from inward indignation. If we can't control this emotion, it will become our master. That is not the place you want to be. Going forward, it's appropriate we examine probable causes of anger. This varies depending upon how we're wired, on cultural biases that had been passed down, and circumstances that confront us. There are myriad of factors and causes that can contribute to this emotion, we'll look at some below.
Probable causes of Anger:
* Ill-treatment
* Offenses
* Discrimination
* Rejection
* Jealousy
* Hatred
* Repugnant behavior and habits
As I alluded to earlier, in many years of counseling and human interactions, I've watched lives, homes, friendships, marriages and churches brought down by the above mentioned causes. I've sat in total silence and amazement watching couples who came for counseling ripped each other apart with words and rage unbecoming of marriage couples.
I've been called into homes whereby on arrival looked like a tornado went through the house. You wouldn't believe the destruction caused by anger between two adults who expressed love and care to each other. The effect of anger when let out without control can be fatal. Years ago I was caught right in between a husband and wife who were so furious with each other that any furniture around became a weapon. I had to duck my head to avoid sustaining a major injury from the flying objects. Truly it's foolishness to be taken over by the spirit of anger. Almost every human person has this tendency for whatever reason, but there are those who have become servants to this emotion.
Have you ever experienced anger that led you to regrettable actions afterwards? What could have triggered that?, how did you picked up the pieces and licked the wounds to move on? There are things that we rather not discuss and in many cases, it's not always the right solution. It's better sometimes to let the air out before the boiling point.
Do these things and you'll safeguard yourself from the spirit of anger:
a) Avoid contentious and agitative situations, It's written, " A soft answer turneth away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger" (Proverbs15:1) KJV.
b) Don't store up wrongs and offenses.
c) Seek the path of peace, forgiveness and reconciliation as quickly as possible.
d)Practice the act of turning to God in prayer when under pressure and displeasure.
e) Learn to walk away without feeling defeated.
Take this scripture to heart and meditate upon it, "Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry; for anger resteth in the bosom of fools" (Ecclessiastes 7:9). Anger can only find a resting place in the hearts of those who are without proper understanding. We must seek wisdom and understanding more particularly to avert the venom of anger in our lives. Remember, when you lose control over your spirit, you've lost your defence.
By the power of the Spirit of Christ and his abundant grace we're able to live above this emotion, never to be fearful anymore. His grace is sufficient to us in this area also.
Dr.Ephraim John Udofia is the founder and Presiding Bishop of Living Faith Apostolic Ministries. International Mission-intensive ministry, both in foreign and home missions with currently over six churches in three countries. Dr.Udofia is the author of over seven life-changing books. He's passionately involved in church planting, crusades, conferences and ministers' training since the seventies. Dr.Udofia holds a Bsc. in Management, minor in accounting, an MBA, and Doctorate in Ministry (Dmin) with major in Missions. He is a former Ceo of Precious Jewels Inc. for 19 years. Also a former banker and security representative holding both State and Federal licences. A financial counselor, motivational speaker, mentor, marriage counsellor and an outstanding dedicated family man. He is happily married with five grown children.
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