There are two main negative aspects to anger which can be broken down in to each of their own categories. One which will be discussed now, and one which will be discussed later. There is the personal damage of what it does to a person and there is the Social Damage of what is does to the people around you.
Anger is not an easy thing to control and it is quite a rampant problem and issue. Because we live in a generation without any patience or waiting, it is very easy for a person to get angry, and for a whole myriad of reasons. There have been many times where people have gotten angry and said things they wish they have never said or did things they wish they had never done. Often, you will hear of marriages and families that have been broken and destroyed through anger. We have seen hate crimes committed against races and groups, but we have to ask ourselves a few things. Why? Where does this anger come from?
Before we know and understand where it comes from we first need to understand how much and how badly it negatively affects a person. When a person becomes enraged he loses his mind, his ability to think, and causes him to do and say so many terrible things, all of which he never would have done in a normal atmosphere. Funnily, there are a few types of actions that seem to trigger anger which you would never think would cause a person to get angry. Firstly, there is "Wrap Rage", which is the anger that results from being unable to open a package or wrapping. Secondly, there is "Computer Rage", which is the anger that results from using a computer. Lastly, there is "Cart Rage", which is the anger and frustration that results from a supermarket being out of stock on a particular item.
All of these type of rages are all something that you would never think to do or would ever think could actually occur, however, statistics show that these three types of rages are more common than you might think. A person who gets angry frequently loses all his quality of life. A person who constantly acts in an improper way and only looks to slander or argue with other people is a person to stay away from. Also, anger causes a person to be stubborn. When a person is stubborn because of his anger he wont come to confess to being wrong and wont admit the truth even though the truth is very clear and written right in front of his face. So we see what type of damage anger can do to a person.
This article was written by professional speaker and motivational author Eli Attias from his website. His website provides many informational and inspiring posts and articles on what it means to be happy and touches upon many topics such as Anger, Self-Control, Patience, Relationship Advice, and much more. You can visit his website at http://www.HappinessDirect.com/
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